Cultivate Your Eros

Erotic paradox is the concept of harnessing the power of your erotic energy to unlock new levels of consciousness. It's about using the opposition between love and desire, the physical and the spiritual, the tangible and the intangible, the primal and the transcendent to fuel your personal growth and transformation.

There is a reason that zen masters taught their students through paradoxes like, "What is the sound of one hand clapping?" 

There is a reason that our minds can't compute the problem of "What came first? The chicken or the egg?"

Our minds simply cannot compute two contradictory correct answers. It is a paradox in and of itself that two contradictory rights can co-exist at all.

Contemplating or, even better, experiencing paradoxes can crack our minds/hearts open into the beyond - and the awe and wonder of infinity. Here we can meet our souls. 

The erotic psyche and our patterns of turn-ons are riddled with paradox!  

When we know how to play with them on purpose, our most primal urges can be the very portal we need to the purest universal love. Erotic paradox can open us to an array of pleasurable and often profound erotic states of consciousness. 

I go into a lot more detail about this with my trainees who learn the full deVinery Method with me, and of course I will tell you all about it in my upcoming book, The Spirituality of Smut: the surprising wisdom of sexual fantasies. 

 However, you can begin cultivating this now by learning my Cultivating Eros practice. 

The daily practice is designed to be short yet powerful. It's meant to fit into your busy schedule, taking only a few minutes each day. Despite its brevity, the practice is potent, designed to ignite your eros and transform your consciousness.

You can choose to stay in the practice longer if you want! 

This course will guide you through a daily ritual designed to awaken  your erotic life force using a fully clothed and non-explicit practice in a group setting on zoom.

You'll learn how to harness the power of erotic paradox to unlock expanded states of consciousness using: 

• Gentle movements
• Visualisation
• Breathe
• Movement of life force energy
• Experiences of paradoxes

 
Expect a journey of self-discovery, transformation, and, with practice,  a profound sense of feeling your primal self, higher self, and everyday self in alignment so you can bring your whole self to your day. 

This course is not suitable for those prone to existential crisis when contemplating infinity.

It is not suitable at this time, for those with unintegrated sexual trauma. Never fear, you can come back and learn when you are ready! 

If you have trouble recognising how your emotions manifest as body sensations, then this course is not for you at this time.

i.e, nervousness feels like butterflies, tears feel like constricted throat, feeling euphoric love feels like an expansive, warmth in your chest etc. 

Please note: 

I am not in a position to support you should you become triggered into a harmful mental health episode, so proceed at your own risk.

You will need to arrange your own support with a qualified professional in the unlikely event that you should need it.  

This course will be fully clothed and the exercises are non-explicit. The live zoom is a cultivation practice only and some discussion which may include references to sex. 

However, you are invited to privately explore how cultivating eros affects your sex life in your own time should you want to. Either solo or partnered is fine. 

Having said that, you are fully in charge of (and responsible for) the level at which you participate at any given time. Do not do anything that makes you uncomfortable!