Artemisia de Vine
Sexual Fantasy Expert
Harness the paradoxical wisdom of our sexual fantasies!
Sex is never just physical. It is an embodied story.
Fantasies may be make-believe, but the effect they have on our hearts, bodies and minds is very real!
Unpack the powerful narratives within your sexual fantasies to create transformative real-life sex that has the same effect - only better!
Author of upcoming book The Spirituality of Smut!
Certified somatic sexologist with BA in anthropology.
Former sex worker, and professional dominatrix, created tailored experiences for thousands of clients.
Now offering a ground-breaking new theory!
About why we have sexual fantasies and a framework to guide you step-by-step through the art and psychology of bringing your sexual fantasies to life!
In a nutshell, sexual fantasies are the exact stories our egos need to hear to let go of our natural fear of vulnerability so we can surrender and "lose ourselves" in the pleasure and connection of erotic flow state
- and sometimes beyond into ego dissolution Oneness states...
I show how sexual fantasies do not come from trauma or childhood wounds but are healthy mechanisms designed to help us overcome the natural paradoxes of sex and change states of consciousness.
If we understand how sexual fantasies work, we can create the same effect in our real life sex or BDSM in ways that access an array of profound erotic states of consciousness.
Want to learn how? It's the best game ever!
The deVinery Master Classes
Monthly live online classes on a particular aspect of sexual fantasies and the transformative power of erotic narratives.
Recordings of previous classes are available for purchase.
The deVinery Method Certification
Become certified in The deVinery Method: An in-depth training program to understand the sexual fantasies and the mental aspect of sexual desire and arousal.
Learn the skills to create real live date nights of transformative play based on each person's unique erotic narrative.
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Speaking and Trainings in your area
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What if your unique pattern of sexual fantasies and turn-ons are there for an important reason?
Yes, even those ones
Use your sexual fantasies and the lens of your eroticism to cultivate an intimate relationship with
Your Whole Self
With Other/s
And with Life itself
You don't need to wait for a willing partner but can begin this inner expedition of self-discovery right now!
Learn The deVinery Method
Sexual Fantasy Coaching Program
Erotic mastery level training
The Desire Compass
The Map of your unique erotic patterning.
The Journey of sexual play.
The Red Velvet Couch
Confidential Sex Guidance for the Refined, Modern Man.
Learn to have the kind of sex that is true to your primal nature, respects your sexual partner/s, and more than satisfies you both!
Sexual Fantasy Reading
Want some help understanding your own sexual fantasies?
Confidential 1-1 zoom coaching session.
The deVinery Seminars!
Monthly live training on particular aspects of The deVinery Method of understanding sexual fantasies, and how to bring them out of our heads and into our beds.
Matteo, 47yo engineer - Holland*
“I’ve never come across anyone that knows more about the erotic psyche and what’s really behind our intimate desires than Artemisia de Vine.
Artemisia is the ultimate world authority in this area, and not only does she possess an immense amount of wisdom on this topic, she also has a unique talent in breaking complex material into simple concepts that are both easy to learn and easy to practically apply as well.
She will expertly unpack the magical and mysterious worlds of desire, sensuality and turn-ons for you, and then she’ll help you discover your uniquely personal erotic wiring in ways that allow you to have the deepest most fulfilling sexual experiences in your life - even if sex has previously been full of frustration and dissatisfaction for you.
Artemisia is the very best in her field, and if you ever have the opportunity to work with her, don’t hesitate, grab it with both hands!”
*Name changed and stock photo used for privacy of client, but Matteo is willing to speak to you directly should you wish to talk to someone who has experienced this body of work. Contact Artemisia for details.
Is this work suited to you?
Artemisia de Vine
Works with individuals who sense there is something more possible, and who would like to use the lens of their own unique erotic psyche for self discovery, and accessing the fuller potential of their sexual expressions.
Sexual fantasies, tuning into your body through sensual touch, role play, deeply connected partner intimacy, spiritual sexuality, kink and BDSM are all pathways to the treasure, and pleasure, possible within erotic states of being.
Artemisia supports people, in deliberately following the personal path they are wired for through coaching, conceptual frameworks, practical tools and exercises in a gentle step-by-step process.
Sessions are fully clothed and non explicit.
Artemisia does not engage in sexual activity or touch with her clients.
She also works with therapists, sex educators, sex workers and other professionals who deal with the sexuality of their clients, and who would like more support in understanding how turn-ons work, while accessing practical tools to explore them on purpose.
This work is rooted in embodied consent practices, and aims for the respect and well-being of all involved.
Who is Artemisia de Vine anyway?
