Ā deVining the Erotic
Ā TheĀ irreverent and insightful writings of
Sexologist and Retired Sex Worker, Artemisia de Vine
The psychology behind our sexual fantasies, turn-ons, and repeating patterns of attraction and desire.
'Sexual play is the perfect vehicle to explore all that it means to be human.'Ā
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"Sexual Fantasies keep you stuck in the head, and I am all about being present in the moment and fully embodied!" she said to me with no small hint of superiority.
It took all I had not to roll my eyes at the woman before me parroting word for word what she had been taught without any...
A real-life case study example of how deliberately understanding and engaging sexual fantasies can open us to moments of ego dissolution and profound erotic states of consciousness. How smut can be spiritual. A story of a real encounter from my time in my former role as a professional...
Sexual fantasies, like all stories, are not just running away from something. They are moving towards something important!
I cringe whenever anyone belittles the art of storytelling as unimportant, entertaining fairyfloss fluff and reduces the magic of stories to "an escape from the...
Anita was turned on by things that troubled her. How could she trust her desire when it activated in response to sexist fantasies and inappropriate and traumatic events including hearing about actual sexual violence and rape on the news?
And yet, when we took a closer look, we found that her...
Artemisia de Vine offers a new and original theory: Sexual fantasies are the exact story that your ego needs to hear in order to let go and surrender into the vulnerability of pleasure and/or connection.
Your fantasies may be make-believe but the effect they have on your mind, feelings and...
Sexual fantasies of all kinds contain mini-stories in them. Each story is tailor-made by the subconscious of the person having the fantasy, in order to create the exact psychological conditions they need to let go and enter the vulnerability of pleasure. But some stories are more obvious than...
Do you fantasize about your lover taking the lead, making love, ravishing, or dominating you in ways that transport you into ecstasy?
Whether you are into the historical heterosexual model of man actively leads and woman surrenders "into her feminine receptive," ...
Or
You are far more...
Retired sex worker, turned erotic psyche specialist - Artemisia de Vine - reveals how she brought her client’s sexual fantasies to life in fulfilling, meaningful ways.
Here’s the thing. I was paid to bring my client’s sexual fantasies to life but I never tried to be their...
