Ā deVining the Erotic
Ā TheĀ irreverent and insightful writings of
Sexologist and Retired Sex Worker, Artemisia de Vine
The psychology behind our sexual fantasies, turn-ons, and repeating patterns of attraction and desire.
'Sexual play is the perfect vehicle to explore all that it means to be human.'Ā
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Ever wonder why the archetype of the BDSM Mistress or Master is so damn arrogant and selfish? Ever wonder why so many of us are so turned on by confidence and power that borders on obscene, but in real-life we hate it when people think too much of themselves? We truly don't want to be treated...
Sexual fantasies help us overcome three major paradoxes inherent to sex.
At the heart of The deVinery Method of bringing sexual fantasies to life, is the power of paradox.
The very thing we fear most about being vulnerable enough to open to sex, becomes the magic thing that transports us to...
A real-life case study example of how deliberately understanding and engaging sexual fantasies can open us to moments of ego dissolution and profound erotic states of consciousness. How smut can be spiritual. A story of a real encounter from my time in my former role as a professional...
Artemisia de Vine offers a new and original theory: Sexual fantasies are the exact story that your ego needs to hear in order to let go and surrender into the vulnerability of pleasure and/or connection.
Your fantasies may be make-believe but the effect they have on your mind, feelings and...
