Ā deVining the Erotic
Ā TheĀ irreverent and insightful writings of
Sexologist and Retired Sex Worker, Artemisia de Vine
The psychology behind our sexual fantasies, turn-ons, and repeating patterns of attraction and desire.
'Sexual play is the perfect vehicle to explore all that it means to be human.'Ā
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Spirituality is the very last thing I am thinking about when I am indulging in one of my deliciously twisted sexual fantasies. It seems impossible to reconcile the taboo feelings with pure heart-centred ecstasy.
Yet by trusting my sexual fantasies - and my sexual partner’s too -...
And sexual fantasies are powerful stories made by your own psyche designed to unlock powerful emotional charge!
If you watch a movie made by a master storyteller, your emotions will be evoked!
You'll fall in love with the main characters, hate the villain, squeal with surprise, feel vicarious...
Your sexual fantasies are the exact story your ego needs to hear so you can temporarily let your guard down and surrender to the vulnerability of pleasure and connection.
Once you understand the key narrative mechanisms in your fantasies, you can bring the power behind your fantasies out of your...
Love can mean becoming the monster they need to interact with.
In our quest to understand the perplexing nature of our sexual turn-ons, it is useful to first understand the nature of fairytales and the nature of play. Then we can begin to recognize that our turn-ons are our personalized...
The tale of one of my early adventures as a sex worker in a country Australian town, and what I learned.
The erotic is a force leading us magnetically towards a homecoming - to the fullness and ever-evolving kaleidoscope of self.
The erotic, as an art form, is the skill of navigating the internal...
