presents

Dating Your Desire

with Artemisia de Vine

A Course to create an intentional, embodied relationship with desire for fulfilling dating, relating and mating.

Would you like to feel more connected with your Desire from an embodied place?

Would you like to understand your turn ons in more depth? 

Would you like to create a two-way conversation with your Desire and learn its wisdom and pleasure?

Artemisia is a seriously expert communicator of the mysteries and the mechanics of eroticism.

She is gently guiding me into forming a relationship with my erotic psyche and in applying that understanding in relating with others.

I am experiencing a profound shift in my self understanding and appreciation and ability to understand others through working with her.

Natalina

What I have learned through ten years of full time sex work is that our turn ons are far wiser than they are given credit for.

We have come so far creating a sex positive culture but once we have accepted that sex between consenting adults is good, and learned the mechanics of getting off, what then?

What is desire for? How do we hear it, create a relationship with it and tap into its potential? How does this fit in with our yoga and mindfulness lifestyles?

 

Our desires tap into important parts of who we are that often remain hidden undercurrents that none the less effect all areas of our lives. This course is about being curious about what happens when we learn how to access them, get to know them and trust them… understand what they are trying to tell us. What would happen if we respected the wisdom of our desires?


This is counter to what popular culture normally tells us. We most often hear that desires can’t be trusted. We desire food that is bad for us. We desire people that are not necessarily good for healthy relationships. Desire can even outright appear to go against our own moral codes and seem, at first glance to be the enemy of embodiment and keep us caught in cycles of suffering.

So how can we create a healthy relationship with desire that taps into its wisdom? What happens when we do?


We begin with Dating Your Desire.

 

Artemisia has been an influential anchor in my life these past several years.

She is intuitive, measured and compassionate.  She offers the gift of personal sexual freedom to those who seek it with integrity.

One cannot attach a value to this.”

Isabel

What is in the training?

This course is a series of fours dates with your Desire.

It is designed as a foundation course that can either be a stand alone, or can be built upon in future courses/private mentoring for those who would like to go further with me and learn to create an in-depth relationship with the Erotic Psyche.

This can include learning to map unique sexual imprints and create tailored play dates for yourself or other/s based on the aspects of the erotic psyche we have uncovered, thereby taking play to the next level.

However we need to begin with creating the foundation skills first.

Dating Your Desire includes: 

  • Learning your body’s deep consent process from an embodied place

 

About Artemisia

Sex is both an art and a science and I have spent over two decades studying and exploring sexuality, ten years of that as a full time sex worker.  

I have now moved into the role of mentor and educator.

I was lucky enough to learn from some of the world’s greatest sexperts and pioneers in the field of erotic embodiment and the sexual mind.

Drawing on the wisdom of those who came before me, I then developed my own approach to creating tailored play dates and encounters based on the unique sexual imprint of each of my clients and personal lovers.  

I have met and played with thousands of people from all around the world.  I became fascinated with understanding and engaging the wisdom of the Erotic Psyche through tailored play experiences.

I have vast experience in sensual sex, erotic massage, BDSM, spiritual sexuality traditions and much more. 

What I have learned is…

Just like how children, puppies and kittens learn about life through playing,  so do adults.  

We learn to create relationships with all aspects of being human through our sexual desires. 

Joy… love… but also shame… jealousy… anger… grief… We learn how to relate to power, lack of it…

When explored consensually and with respect for each other, we can process the full spectrum of the human experience through sexuality.

Adult play is actually a way of creating profound relationship with all levels of self, each other and life itself.  

Now I am ready to share what I have learned with you.

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Discover yourself, and each other, through adult play

Uncover the treasures your Erotic Psyche reveals through your unique Sexual Imprint

 

Becoming aware of, and intentionally engaging, your unique sexual imprint through embodied play, can be super hot, fun, satisfying, and surprisingly transformative and profound.

But how do you know what your imprint is and what it says about you?

How do you create a relationship with it?

How do you communicate it to your sexual partner/s?

How do you map another’s Imprint?

How do you create play experiences for each other that hit all those, often unconscious buttons in order to transport you both?

Do you sense there is something more to unlock in your sexuality?

Are you curious about why our sexual fantasies often seem to go against our own moral compass?

Does the idea of learning potent tools for creating ongoing sexual play and intimacy with your partner/s interest you?

Do you want to understand your often conflicting desires?

Do you yearn to be seen and accepted in your complexity?

Would you like to uncover the wisdom hidden in your desires and fantasies?

Would you like to feel confident in exploring your lover's deep desires?

Are you a sexuality or relating professional who would like a clear set of tools to map the Sexual Imprint of your clients?

Would you like a set of tools for exploring the full range of your complex desires using an embodied, consensual and powerfully effective approach?

Would you like to be guided in a deep, honest and powerful relationship with your own erotic being?

Would you like to learn the tools I used as an highly sought after sex worker with thousands of clients?

Limited Time Offer!

For a short time only, I will be accepting personalised, one-to-one Erotic Mentoring at this introductory price.

Sessions are available globally via Zoom or Skype, or in-person in Sydney and Melbourne, Australia.

The current introductory private mentoring sessions will be available to a limited number of people as I will be shifting this work into online courses and in-person, group intensives.  

If you would like the benefit of personalised guidance, this is your chance.

What is a Sexual Imprint? What does it mean to map it?

A sexual imprint is the way our bodies and minds are wired to be turned on.

When we learn to read, accept and engage each person’s individual sexual wiring,  everything about dating, relating and mating, shifts.

Sexuality is the way adults process all the challenges and joys of being human through embodied play.

However, most people are not fully aware of the undercurrents that drive their turn ons, desires and fantasies. Bringing these aspects into awareness not only dramatically  improves sexual satisfaction but has significant positive impact on the personal, interpersonal and transpersonal.

Whether we are aware of it or not, underlying all sexuality is the drive for Oneness.  The urge to merge…

Oneness with self , Oneness with another and ultimately, Oneness with All That Is.

Initially, the practice of mapping and intentionally engaging our unique sexual imprints, creates a feeling of being whole as we become aware, accept and engage the various layers of our own psyches.

Then it creates dramatically improved relationships, intimacy and sexual satisfaction with our sexual partner/s. For some this is enough.

For those who continue, this practice creates a two-way conversation with deep, wise parts of ourselves that usually only speak in feelings and symbols.

It can open erotic states of consciousness that give us experiences of Oneness with Life itself.

If we follow our own unique map, it leads us home to ourselves.

Learn to identify and utilise personalised EMOTIONAL APHRODISIACS

Did you know that fear, anger, love, joy, grief, jealousy and shame are woven through our sexual imprints in unique, and often unconscious ways?  When engaged with awareness, they can be powerful allies in our erotic experiences. 

Gain a nuanced understanding of the role of POWER in each person's unique sexual Imprint

Everyone has an erotic relationship with power, even those convinced they don’t. 

We encounter and engage power every day in a myriad of ways and we each have ingrained responses and tactics we use to navigate it. 

Discover how your erotic psyche processes power and uses it to fuel your hottest turn ons. 

Discover how each Imprint contains both an erotic POISON and ANTIDOTE

 We eroticise life challenges and problems, often without being aware of it. Sexual desires and fantasies hold the keys and clues we need to de-code both the poison and the antidote. 

When we intentially bring these underlying factors into our sexual play the results are surprisingly potent! Fuel for hotter sex that also creates an embodied alchemy.

Discover how Sexual Shadows manifest in our Sexual Imprints

Learn how unowned aspects of ourselves manifest themselves in our sexual desires and fantasies.  

Learn what happens when we acknowledge our shaodws through our desires and turn ons and transform them into our allies. 

Discover the eroticised Temperament or Personal ATTITUDE needed to activate each sexual imprint

Without this element, all the technical skill in the world can fall flat.  Play that includes it ignites the eros in each sexual imprint.

Learn the three Main AROUSAL STYLES and their corresponding Erotic States of Consciousness

While we are all capable of learning to utalise all three arousal styles, we each tend  to have a favorite while neglecting the others. 

Sexual partners often clash when they do not recognise the preferred style of their play mate and end up pulling in conflicting directions. 

In the introductory mentoring packages, learn to what all three are and signs of each style. Discover which ones are in your map. 

In more advances mentoring packages, learn how to access all three arousal styles and for advanced, how guide others into them. 

Learn the role SEXUAL FANTASIES play in unlocking the mysteries of your sexual psyche

Everyone has sexual fantasies, even those who are unaware they do. Once we begin to explore them together, we unlock the underlying keys that we can use in the creation of our play dates and encounters.  While role playing the fantasies as they are can be fun, often it is even more effective to recognise and utalise the aspects of the erotic psyche that are behind and woven through the fantasy. 

COMING SOON: Learn the tools and techniques to translate maps into tailored play dates, sexual encounters and erotic rituals that tap into the key element of each other's sex imprints

While we are all capable of learning to utalise all three arousal styles. 

COMING SOON: Learn the different Erotic States of Consciousness and how to access them

While we are all capable of learning to utalise all three arousal styles. 

Who is Erotic Mentoring For?

Erotic Mentoring is for those who are interested in creating an ongoing, intentional relationship with their erotic psyche to discover the places it can take us.

Anyone who wants to integrate their sexuality into their practice of embodiment and well being will benefit.

It is for singles, sexual partners and for professional development.

All genders and sexual orientations are welcome.

How do we work together?

Talk based mentoring online or in person – Currently available

Online Courses – Coming soon!

In person group intensives – Coming soon!

 

Talk-based courses and personalised mentoring sessions, allow you to safely explore your sexuality in the privacy of your own home, or in person with me.

Private mentoring works best as a combination of giving you practical skills and tools, as well as allowing the time and space to explore what comes up for you. I listen to your goals and tailor my approach to your needs.  As such, there is no set number of sessions to achieve mastery. I work at your pace.

While I am happy for you to purchase a introductory single session to ensure we are a good fit.  If you decide to dive in, to be effective I need you to commit to a minimum of four sessions in a package.  

I do not engage in touch or play with my mentoring clients, however these learnings need to be in your body as well as your head!

As such, to get the most out of these sessions, you will be guided into a variety of embodied exercises.

You will never be expected to go beyond your comfort level, and are encouraged to communicate your needs and boundaries. Listening to the body and its consent signals is a cornerstone of my work. All physically explicit exercises will be done privately in your own home without my presence.

Introduction to Mapping your Unique Sexual Imprint

Be guided through a series of  personalised erotic mentoring sessions to map your own Unique Sexual Imprint. 

This mentoring style delivers both practical tools and techniques as well as allowing space and time to explore the elements of your sexual self discovery that come up from engaging in this work. 

Introduction to Mapping Sexual Imprints for Couples

Be guided through a series of  personalised erotic mentoring sessions to map each other’s Unique Sexual Imprint.

This mentoring style delivers both practical tools and techniques as well as allowing space and time to explore the elements of your sexual self discovery that come up from engaging in this work. 

Creating the Perfect Play Date

Once you have the map, what do you do with it?  

This upcoming series will guide you through the tools and techniques needed to create adult play dates and sexual encounters based on the key elements found in each map. 

Career Mentoring

Introduction to mapping unique sexual imprints for Sexuality and Relating Professionals.

Learn tools to use with your clients to aid them in creating an intentional, aware, embodied and profoundly satisfying relationship with their unique sexual wiring.   

Artemisia is a seriously expert communicator of the mysteries and the mechanics of eroticism. She is gently guiding me into forming a relationship with my erotic psyche and in applying that understanding in relating with others. I am experiencing a profound shift in my self understanding and appreciation and ability to understand others through working with her.” 

Natalina

Artemisia has been an influential anchor in my life these past several years.

She is intuitive, measured and compassionate.  She offers the gift of personal sexual freedom to those who seek it with integrity.

One cannot attach a value to this.”

Isabel

“If you are considering more kink education, this stuff is next level. I’ve taken classes, workshops and privates all over the US and Canada, and rarely can I recommend instructors this highly. 

Also, if you like Betty Martin’s work, this is adjacent, or for some, is a next step.”

Catherine Control

Seattle Professional Dominatrix

She saw me, and heard me, in a way that is hard to describe, and she used what she saw and heard to create an experience that I wouldn’t have known to ask for but was exactly what I needed. She is truly expert at the skills of her craft.”

Stanley